Statement Ideas
This pages content is under construction and is still a first draft.
especially the black text. The "statements" are fine, just the flow between statements is still a bit messed up.
A quick note before starting on the statements.
I imagine that if people end up on this page then some may be having an issue with doing Bob, getting good results, but then the emotion shows up again. Thoughts can recreate an emotion, after all emotions often follow thoughts. I'd suggest the practice of watching for a neg thought stream starting and stop it as it starts, so you don't get to the "stewing" stage. Once you start "stewing" on an issue then emotions will be created and even REcreated. Become the master of your mind, try to not let it run on autopilot 🙂 yes it can be hard but a very worthwhile skill to have.
OR, the statement used was not targeted enough to clear all the issues attached to the emotion, if so, then see below.
Below is a variety of statements and some info on some of them. From these examples you can start to learn how to formulate your own statements using the same sort of sentence structures.
Many reading this know what an "AI prompt" is, for those that don't a short explanation is to get something from an AI you have to ask it in writing, this is called a "Prompt". The better the wording of the prompt, the better the answer you get. AI is very specific to what it's asked. Very Literal.
And on a side note, it may be highly likely that your partners subconscious is getting prompts from your subconscious essentially saying "push this button, and say it with this tone of voice!"
Because Bob deals with many levels of the brain, ie "Human Intelligence" it also requires the correct statement (or prompt) to get the best result as via the Bob Process it will do literally what you say, it wont read between the lines. "awwh maybe they mean this" NO, very literally word for word.
For example these 5 statements below may seem relatively the same to your conscious analytical mind but they mean 5 specifically different things to some areas of your brain.
1. "Any and all negative emotions being caused by John"
2. "Any and all negative emotions being reflected by John"
3. "Any and all negative emotions I have towards John"
4. "Any and all negative emotions being created by John"
5. "Any and all negative emotions being triggered by John"
While they all will most likely make changes for most people, and one may even overlap somewhat with another, but it's not the complete statement to clear some emotions your working on.
Out of these 5 above, number 5 is the most accurate in most cases.
Any one of them is not the complete "prompt" for your brain.
Lengthy statements in some cases may be required to FULLY bob deeper more complex negative emotions, especially in relationships.
This statement below isn't even actually factual.
"Any and all negative emotions being caused by John"
John doesn't "cause" your neg emotions, he's a trigger perhaps, but not a cause, yes it feels like he causes it, but that is coming from a victim perspective in that John is "doing" something to you that "makes" you feel _____________.
A more accurate way to say it would be
"Any and all negative emotion that I have within me that exist because of some past experiences that John's words, actions and/or general vibe are triggering an emotional response in me now and always."
Not a perfect statement but certainly 100% more accurate than the previous statement above.
Explore other ways to state things when using Bob if the first try doesn't help, or doesn't help fully.
Relationships often reflect our parent of the opposite sex and the way they withheld love from us as a child.
This is more often than not a father/daughter experience as men are less openly affectionate compared to the mother who is most often hard wired to be nurturing.
But if a young child, say a daughter compares mum with dad then dad is more often than not going to seem less loving than mum. So the child may very well FEEL dad loves her less than mum.
But is also seen in mum son as well.
So your partner may, unconsciously, withhold love from you in the same way that your opposite sex parent did. That's why your brain created love chemistry to bring partners into your life. To reflect what you need to work on to go deeper into love of yourself and then love of others.
Also why it's beneficial for both in a relationship to do Bob.
As often as needed.
If you were unloved by both parents like I was, in a very obvious way then that can really mess you up. If interested you can read my bio here about how NRT and Bob transformed my life, BIG time.
The more emotionally evolved one partner becomes the higher the chance they'll grow away from a current partner. Because the chemistry is changing because they no longer need some of the reflections (buttons pushed) as Bob has cleared them so their brain will drop the chemistry and target another potential partner that will create reflections to make the person look at the uncleared stuff.
Another reason why both within a relationship should do Bob and grow together as they clear past stuff together and in doing so get a better understanding of this dynamic within their relationship and learn to grow true deep life long love habits.
Now perhaps a partner doesn't believe in Bob, they say it's "not scientific", or they don't believe it works, well just surrogate them.
Are you taking that persons power?, interfering with them? NO
Bob only works if the higher self of your partner knows its in their best interest to have Bob done on them. The brain wants this stuff cleared.
And they'll never know you did it, they'll just be happier or more stable etc.
So go on, give them the gift of Bob. Every time you do Bob, after a big argument, or stuff, then surrogate them and clear them as well. Perhaps that argument will never come up again and if it does Bob them and you again. Their brain, their higher self wants it, it's why it organised the argument in the first place, to clear it, to process it.
If you don't? then expect more of the same, the brain don't quit till it's cleared in some way.
Even if you, or they, don't process it this relationship, then it'll show up again in the next one, and the next, and the next​, especially if you haven't processed your stuff with your parent of the opposite sex.
I think it's never about your partner, it's about you and ALL those people you've interacted with since before you were born.
Have you ever noticed that, more often than not, it's only those you care about that hurt you?
More Statements Ideas
"Any and all negative emotions connected to love in high school now and always."
even better is to do individual years rather than just 'high school' as that statement above is a very broad statement, so'...in year 8', '...in year 9', '...in year 10' etc Split them into separate years.
And don't forget the years of primary school either.
Also every specific "partners" or "love interest" or love "rejections" you can remember, even better, by the persons name.
For example:
"Any and all negative emotion related to John now and always." (and then name each ex individually or do several at a time in a custom list) and don't forget the other powerful aspect already covered in the "Name it different" process...
"Any and all negative emotion being reflected by John but not caused by John now and always. "
Add to that the powerful example given in the Custom List page.
Then there is the parental aspect of the relationships you now experience.
Keep in mind these do not infer that it is is anyway your parents fault. Keep in mind this is based on how you interpreted what you seen and heard at the intellect level of a young child most often between birth and 5 years old.
Ask yourself, did my parents have a loving relationship, argue a lot, or worse, give each other the cold shoulder for a day or two after an argument?
"Any and all negative emotions I took on as a child watching my parents relationship believing that's what relationships were meant to be like now and always."
Or more fine tuned:
"Any and all negative emotions I took on as a child watching my parents relationship believing that mums actions were what relationships were meant to be like now and always."
Or:
"Any and all negative emotions I took on as a child watching my parents relationship believing that dads actions were what relationships were meant to be like now and always."
And not just parents but relatives and other adults in general.
"Any and all negative emotions I took on as a child watching adults (or relatives) relationship believing that was what relationships were meant to be like now and always."
Also use the same statement above that you used on your partner, on your parents. This will change your relationship with your parents and also once that is cleared there is less of that stuff will show in your own personal relationship with your partner.
"Any and all negative emotion related to PARENTS NAME now and always."
And...
"Any and all negative emotion being reflected by Mum/Dad but not caused by PARENTS Mum/Dad now and always.".
Swap out "being reflected" aspect and add in the following instead.
"... I have towards ..."
"... that are caused ..."
"Any and all negative emotions I have towards NAME now and always."
"Any and all negative emotions I feel towards NAME now and always."
"Any and all negative emotions being reflected by NAME now and always."
"Any and all negative emotions I accepted as being what a relationship 'IS' based on what I seen my parents do now and always."
"Any and all negative emotions I accepted as being how people in a relationship treated each other based on what I seen my parents do now and always."
"Any and all negative emotions I accepted as being what a relationship 'IS' based on what I seen my siblings do now and always."
"Any and all negative emotions I accepted as being what a relationship 'IS' based on what I seen my relatives do now and always."
"Any and all negative emotions I accepted as being what a relationship 'IS' based on what I seen strangers do now and always."
"Any and all negative emotions I accepted as being what a relationship 'IS' based on what I seen my friends do now and always."
"Any and all negative emotions I accepted as being what a relationship 'IS' based on what I was told by siblings now and always."
"Any and all negative emotions I accepted as being what a relationship 'IS' based on what I was told by parents now and always."
"Any and all negative emotions I accepted as being what a relationship 'IS' based on what I was told by relatives now and always."
"Any and all negative emotions I accepted as being what a relationship 'IS' based on what I was told by strangers now and always."
"Any and all negative emotions I accepted as being what a relationship 'IS' based on what I was told by friends now and always."
Now some may ask why the last word in these statement examples is not just "anyone" instead of individually targeting "friend", "relative", "stranger", etc. They're seperate because this is to broad of a term and may well be to large a statement for the brain to process in one Bob and in those case where it's to big the brain does nothing. See below.
Because to do them as more than one year may be too much to be processed and the subconscious will simply ignore the statement entirely and while you think you have done them and simply not felt a change. Instead perhaps there was some large stuff in there and the brain did none of them as it was "to much" to do within 1 bob session.
Where as broken down into smaller time frame would have allowed the brain to process them.
It's a built in safety protocol in the Bob Template that if some statement is to big to process safely then the brain is not to process it.
These next ones should be done by specific years. While for some people they can be done, for example, by using: "from age 1-15 years old", within a statement, however it's often more effective to do them one year at a time. Or if you have particular bad year that you know of, like perhaps the year before your parents were getting divorced. Or one of your parents were really sick and your healthy parent was struggling, in overload emotionally themselves and was perhaps more short in their response to you as a child, not emotionally present with you, seem like they don't care, when they're just overloaded with the rest of their life at that time.
I think the majority of parents do the best they can based on what their parents taught/reflected to them.
"Any and all negative emotions I experienced at age 1 that affects my current relationships now and always."
"Any and all negative emotions I experienced at age 2 that affects my current relationships now and always."
"Any and all negative emotions I experienced at age 3 that affects my current relationships now and always."
"Any and all negative emotions I experienced at age (etc, up to current age) that affects my current relationships now and always.""
"Any and all negative emotions I experienced pre-birth that affects my current relationships now and always.""
Yes you read that correct, pre-birth.
It's been well documented that you as a baby before you were born not only hear voices and emotion overtones in those voices but also receive emotional chemicals from your mum in your shared blood. Yes, every emotion has a chemical attached/related to it and the baby gets those and thus feels them all, including the ones it didn't hear.
If, 'past lives' is in your personal belief system, then the above can be done using the past life time frame in place of 'years'.
Name every relationship (including rejected approaches to someone you liked) that you can remember.
"Any and all negative emotions I experienced in my relationship/interaction with THEIR NAME HERE now and always."
"Any and all negative emotions I experienced in my relationship/interaction with THEIR NAME HERE that was being reflected by them but not caused by them now and always."
WARNING:
My experience in doing this statement below resulted in a 100% drop of all emotional needs or desired connection with this ex partner.
So be 100% sure before using it that that is the result you want. I'd recommend it only when the relationship is over and you 100% want it to be and stay over.
NO GOING BACK, IT CAN'T BE REVERSED!
Or perhaps your partner has moved on to another relationship or done something that is inexcusable and you just want the heart ache OF WANTING to be with them to end.
Also I have never done this on any clients one on one and have no feedback from any online user regarding this statement, I speak purely from personal experience and from my perspective it was .... awesome!.
I was in a relationship and over a period of several years we had split up 6+ times. (yes, so many times we lost count)
At the time of splitting up it felt like a relief, however within days there was an aching need and desire to be back with them.
I created this following statement and it was not only instant but also very effective in successfully stopping the aching desire in it's tracks and I felt no need or desire to get back with that person after this was done as a statement via Bob.
I'll use fake name here to protect the guilty. Obviously replace the name with your partners name.
"Any and all emotions that would be reflected to me by Susan in the future to be cleared in this session so I no longer need Susan in my life to reflect said emotions to me due to any and all of these negative emotions that they would have reflected in the future being 100% cleared by this process I'm doing now and always."
So think about that for a second, a burning aching desire to be with this person, total love and adoration (when we were apart) vanished in seconds by just removing the "chemistry". Removing the need my brain had for those reflections to make me look at, deal with, process some emotions from the past.
The brain can be a real bitch sometimes LOL
If you have a statement that you used that made a difference that I haven't included then please share it with others in the comments below.
Thanks