I've spoken about this in other posts but people may have missed it as it was in with the surrogating post. So I want just one time Bob users to know this who will never read about surrogating.

When I first started doing NRT with clients I'd have their permission as they chose to come and see me for help. Then I started surrogating people once I discovered it was feasible.
In the beginning it was clients that I'd seen one on one in person but I had moved state or they had. They'd ring and tell me the issue and I'd surrogate them. Then the Bob videos came into existence I decided during the process of working out the pros and cons and the ins and outs that I'd include a safety protocol. That it would only be effective if it was in the users best interest.
Because I'd thought back to a doco on TV some 30+ years ago and it related to my recent thoughts... do some people need certain bad memories to drive them forward to get to where the universe wants them to be.

Now back to this doco, in short this lady (lets call her sue) has a huge argument with her sister, sister leaves in a hurry  gets in their truck with her husband and starts driving off down the driveway. Sues running down the driveway beside the truck still yelling as the truck continues to accelerate.
Her shirt gets caught on the truck door handle and in a split second shes pulled off balance and falls under the truck and the back wheel of the truck runs over her head.
Now on the doco sues telling this story. At this point shes had something like 30 painful surgeries to try and repair the damage and honestly, she looks horrific, her face nose head are horrifying to look at.
They showed a before shot and seriously she looked like she could have been prom queen, totally gorgeous. But now?? very much not so.
My point of this story is near the end of the 30 minute doco she makes a statement that stuck with me even now 30 years later...
She said "It was the best thing that ever happened to me"
as she looked at the guy sitting next to her, "it's how we met, we met when I was in rehab."

So I added safety protocols into Bob that it would only be successful only if it was in the users best interest. Now sue most likely would have met her man without getting run over or perhaps spirit knew it was the only way she would meet him.
I'd like to think spirit would have found another way, had that not happened, like going to rehab after a broken ankle. But that was her path.
So because of this Bob safety protocol you can relax when it comes to doing a surrogate on someone, especially an abusive spouse, or a child emotionally out of control. Sure ask if they want to try something that seems like magic. But if they're an abusive spouse or similar scenario. Just Bob them with confidence if it's in their best interest according to their higher self then it'll work just and the anger will subside.