We attract people to us and are attracted to others based on many emotional things going on beneath the level of conscious awareness, yes emotions.In particular negative emotions. The brain wants these cleared because when they are you attract better quality people and partners, for those without access to Bob the brains only option is to make you attract and be attracted to people who will bring those negative emotions up. They'll trigger them via their words and actions. How does the brain do this?
For many decades love has been talked about as "chemistry", "I love him so much the chemistry is amazing. Until more recent medical studies everyone considered chemistry as just an expression. But it's now 100% medical fact that for every single emotion we have the brain triggers a chemical signal into the blood that affects how you feel.
And yes their is a chemical or several for "love". The brain literally controls who you'll feel love for.And in this see of energy we live in your subconscious is connected to all other subconsciousness's around you. 
To put it crudely, your subconscious knows who will be the emotional match that will screw you over in a way as to bring those emotions it wants cleared to the surface in the hope you'll process them.
Problem is we live in a world were for some reason everyone plays the victim, blames the other person and doesn't deal with their own stuff. Now their subconscious repeats the whole process of attraction all over again. ONLY now the emotional baggage is worse as it's been added to by the previous relationship drama. 
So chances are the next person they will fall in love with will screw them over worse than the previous.
It becomes a long slippery slide to worse and worse relationships for most.
Even if they did meet an amazing partner, their own baggage usually via insecurities will screw them over and cause them to unknowingly sabotage the relationship.
It ends, they play victim, blame the other person etc etc.
And the dance continues.

If this is not your life I'm sure you can see this in some of your friends.
BUT, Bob is a solution to this, now one Bob is not going to change this but many Bobs will start to. There may well be incidences when you were 7 with a girl at school that you really liked and she publicly rejects you, laughs at you, shames you, lots of triggered negative emotions, and most likely very traumatic to you at that age. Those emotions are still sitting in your subconscious dictating to some degree every relationship you have TODAY.
Even though you have no conscious memory of them, your subconscious memory does and it attracts people to reflect them, sort of like it's going "woohoo look over here".

The solution
Do lots of Bobs, not just one or two even, I mean lots of them. Now if you've already done Bob then you now have the ability to do Bob anywhere anytime AND without the video. See here I personal have done well over a hundred, are they all dramatic shifts? no. but they are accumulative.
I did statements on everything from every year of life, one at a time. Every year of school, one year at a time. Every ex I could remember. And much much more. Fuller details here on statements to use etc.

Every single time I have a negative emotion I would do Bob on "the primary cause of that emotion". not on the emotion in the moment, on the primary cause of it. Perhaps some kid stole my lollipop when I was 3 and I cried for half an hour about it, huge emotion. I dont remember it, but with Bob I dont need to, the subconscious does and Bob will clear it from the subconscious.

Conclusion

If I'm right about what I write here then the more negative emotions I clear from the past with Bob, the less people I have in my life pushing my buttons, or more correctly trying to but failing as there is nothing in my subconscious that is triggered by their words or actions.
So life becomes where my emotional range on any day is between calm and excited and happy, never drops below calm, no matter what is going on around me.

This was not who I was before Bob, but it is who I am today and only because I did lots and lots of bobs and most of it can be done in a weekend easily. 
Read the statement ideas page to get your head around the wording of statements and why it matters.
Self treating means you can go thru them quickly. And if not comfortable with self treatment then use Speed Bob that's what I created it for. 
And once you go thru as much as possible, have a break and just treat the emotions that are left and still show up day to day.

Also check this practice, chances are at present you will most likely not be mindfull enough to catch them till you do the above, but maybe you can start this practice.

Stop being a victim and start doing this instead. Bad feelings are a choice